You have
given a massage and received one [maybe you have simultaneously given and
received? Creative]. As the giver, it was your responsibility to keep your
fingers moving, apply oil, etc. As the receiver, you were tasked with receiving
– keep still, relax your muscles, sigh approvingly, etc. Have you ever
passively [un]received [positioned yourself stubbornly, refused to remove
undergarments, etc.]? And even then, did your actions of non-compliance succeed
in making things difficult for your masseuse [e.g. you affected her anyway]?